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whats on your dealbreaker list??

Anonymous
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is there something your DH could do that would be a dealbreaker for your marriage? what is totally unforgivable to you?

Mine are abuse and cheating.

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:20 PM
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Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:22 PM

 Serial cheating or physical abuse now that we are married.  Children and ex-wives were my deal breakers before we were married, I hate baggage!

AVSpecWife4
by Ruby Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:22 PM
Neglecting the family, Porn, abuse, cheating, strip clubs,and smoking (cigarettes).
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damionsmama7195
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:23 PM
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cheating, strip club, abuse, not willing to treat my son as his own.

aphrodite7400
by Silver Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:23 PM
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adultery, abuse, addiction 

uriahadel
by Platinum Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:24 PM
This

And I wouldn't put up with any kind of cheating


Quoting Dzyre1115:

 Serial cheating or physical abuse now that we are married.  Children and ex-wives were my deal breakers before we were married, I hate baggage!


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violetlady
by Silver Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:28 PM
Abuse, cheating, breaking the law, addictions to drugs , alcohol or cigarettes, extreme laziness.
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Simple-Beauty
by Gold Member on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:31 PM
The only thing that is an instant deal breaker for me is any form of abuse against myself or our children.

Anything else, I'd be willing to work through in counseling, as long as he was a willing and dedicated participant.
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slashteddy
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:33 PM
Cheating. Hurting our kids.
jaytee
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:33 PM
Abuse and drug addiction
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JLah
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 6:34 PM

Cheating abusing me or our son. 

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