We've been trying for almost two years and we're broke. I've spent almost 10,000 on medical tests, meds, procedures and doctor visits. I'm extremely depressed and its taken its toll on my marriage. Its very hard as people around me keep having oops babies that they say they don't even want and my in laws day horrible cruel things. People generally don't like infertile women. I don't know what to do. I am afraid I'm out of time, I'm almost 29 so there's not loads of time. I feel like I wasted my life with college. Doctors can't figure out what's wrong. My mil says its proof that dh was supposed to marry someone else since we can't have a baby together. I'm so tired of the pain.