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DH keeps giving SD money!

Anonymous
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We(SD, DH, and I) decided that if she did a certain list of chores once a week she would get 20 dollars. The way it used to work; SD would just ask DH for money whenever she needed it and she got it. Well she hasn't been doing the chores so she shouldn't get any money, right? Wrong! She asked DH if she could have money for the mall and he just hands over a 20. So frustrating! The girl will never do chores if he rewards her for NOT doing them.

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 9, 2013 at 3:27 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 9, 2013 at 3:28 PM
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That is between her and her dad.
macysmom
by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 3:30 PM
Oh jimminy crickets. My dad did the same for me.
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Mar. 9, 2013 at 3:30 PM
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Better stay out of it.....YOU are Damned if you DO and Damned if you Don't

                             Betty Boop Lets go to the disco.    Betty Jean Newell Smith

Homeschoolmom99
by Gold Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 3:32 PM


Quoting Sassy762:

Better stay out of it.....YOU are Damned if your DO and Damned if you Don't


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 9, 2013 at 3:45 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

That is between her and her dad.

Why? We are a family and it's our money. Maybe that's how it works in your house but I'm involved in her life.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 9, 2013 at 3:45 PM


Quoting macysmom:

Oh jimminy crickets. My dad did the same for me.

Okay? That doesn't make it right. We all made an agreement that she would do chores for an allowance and she's not sticking to her word so why should we?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 9, 2013 at 3:47 PM
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Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting Anonymous:

That is between her and her dad.

Why? We are a family and it's our money. Maybe that's how it works in your house but I'm involved in her life.


And you aren't her mother, so you have shit to say about it. It's between him and HIS dd. Piss off.

MeghMirab
by Bronze Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 3:47 PM

My Dad did the same for me. It was awesome and I always appreciated it. Mostly used it for food and hanging out with my friends. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 9, 2013 at 3:48 PM

 hey she's not your kid not your problem! so when people want to bitch about how you are not doing "x,y,z" just remind them she is not your kid so she's not your problem! lmao dont stress what someone else does to fuck their kid up.

numonestunar
by Platinum Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 3:48 PM
Eh, it isnt a big deal. You will lose if you through a hissy fit.
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