SDD is mad because I am letting my parents use her room when they visit
Because she won't be here. She lives most of the time with her mom but visits here every other weekend. Before I married DH her room was the guest room but when they moved in, we made it her room. The furniture stayed the same but I let her pick our a younger looking comforter set that still matched the curtains and paint so that the original set still worked in the room.
Anyway, she is going home tonight (usually she stays till sunday but her little brother (her mom's son) is being baptized tomorrow so obviously, she will want to go to church with them (we go to a different church).
So I asked her to strip the bed. She asked "why" I said remember my parents are visiting next week, they will be sleeping in there. She said I don't want old people doing it in my bed, she said they are (my kids names) grandparents why don't they give up their rooms? I told her because they will be here, she won't so it doesn't make sense for them to give up their rooms so that mom and dad can sleep there while there is a room standing empty.
I also told her as far as them doing it in that bed, what they do is non of their business (not to mention nothing I want to think about) but since they always have stayed in that room, before I even married DH, when they visited, they have been doing it in that bed long before it was hers so she can get over it. She said she is never sleeping in that bed again, I rolled my eyes and said "enjoy the floor then" and she stormed off, whatever, she will get over it.