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Would you be upset?

Anonymous
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My sister and her dh generally suck with money. Sis has ALWAYS been bad with money. She's had a truck reposessed. Her utilities are always on disconnect. And its not that they don't make enough money, they really just suck with money. I leanred a loonnnggg time ago not to give her any money. If the baby needs something I will sometimes get it, but over all I stay out of what she does.
Well something happened and she needed money. She had mentioned that something had come up. But she didn't ask me for the money (she knows better).
A few days later my Mom asked me for 100$. I didn't think.much of it and gave it to her. And she turned around and gave it to my sister!! She knows I won't give sis money. I'm pretty annoyed and feel like my mom broke my trust.

It would.be different if she really needed the help. But her and.her husband make good money, and they make more than I do. I'm a single mom, no cs. So 100$ is kind of a lot for me. Usually I don't have more than 200$ in my bank. I told my mom I wanted the money back. That's just really crappy.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 9, 2013 at 10:07 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 9, 2013 at 10:08 PM
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by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 9, 2013 at 10:10 PM
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Miranda1127
by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 10:11 PM

 no, I'd be pissed.

skittlebeans88
by Platinum Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 10:12 PM
You have a right to ask for it back. I'd be pissed
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 9, 2013 at 10:12 PM
Yea.. its so frustrating.


Quoting Miranda1127:

 no, I'd be pissed.


Char-Bear
by Platinum Member on Mar. 9, 2013 at 10:13 PM

I would certainly never loan my mother money again.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 9, 2013 at 10:14 PM
You didn't give it to her. You gave it to your mom, and what she does with it isn't any of your business.
Famousglm714
by Gina on Mar. 9, 2013 at 10:14 PM


Quoting skittlebeans88:

You have a right to ask for it back. I'd be pissed
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 9, 2013 at 10:15 PM
I know... Now it makes me wonder if she's ever done this before!


Quoting Char-Bear:

I would certainly never loan my mother money again.


Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Mar. 9, 2013 at 10:17 PM

I would be very pissed and get that money back from your sister. NOW YOU know ..never ever give money to your mom or sister....smdh

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