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I Don't Want To Live With My BF

Anonymous
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My bf and I haven't been together very long, so there's really no marriage talk. We both agreed that we don't want to live together before marriage. We said this at the beginning. And then we got pregnant. Now he's wanting us to get a place to rent and live together. He wants to be a part of the baby's life and still be with me. I want the same thing. I just don't really want to live together for religious beliefs (before anyone brings it up, I already feel bad for losing my virginity to him before marriage, I know I'm not perfect.) I'm afraid I'll lose him over this. But my family and friends tell me we're about to have a family together and it'd be easier having him with me. Him coming to visit me everyday and spending the night just isn't gonna cut it, which is what he does now.

I really just need advice.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 10, 2013 at 6:57 PM
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Abby.N.Amys.Mom
by on Mar. 10, 2013 at 6:59 PM
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Don't move in with him.  Tell him how you feel. 

Keara20
by Platinum Member on Mar. 10, 2013 at 6:59 PM
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Lol this post made me laugh
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 10, 2013 at 7:00 PM
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Why aren't you getting married to him if you are religious and carrying his child?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 10, 2013 at 7:01 PM
I told him I don't think we should have to live together because of having a baby. He told me it'd help him knowing that we were more serious than just having visits and he wants to be with his child at night.


Quoting Abby.N.Amys.Mom:

Don't move in with him.  Tell him how you feel. 


NNB
by on Mar. 10, 2013 at 7:02 PM
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Move in, and get married... problem solved

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 10, 2013 at 7:02 PM
We've only been together for 11 months.


Quoting Anonymous:

Why aren't you getting married to him if you are religious and carrying his child?

Mommyof2n0308
by Marissa on Mar. 10, 2013 at 7:02 PM
Lmao
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EAzizM
by Erica on Mar. 10, 2013 at 7:02 PM
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The hypocrisy in this post makes me laugh. Smdh.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 10, 2013 at 7:03 PM
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If its long enough to make a baby with him its long enough to get married....

Quoting Anonymous:

We've only been together for 11 months.




Quoting Anonymous:

Why aren't you getting married to him if you are religious and carrying his child?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 10, 2013 at 7:03 PM
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You should just let him have the child and you go visit just whenever...
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