SO seems to think he is the reason we are 6 months ahead in rent.
SO recieved a lump sum. He paid 6 months ahead in rent.
That credit ran out in December. So, come January we had to start paying rent again.
I had some money and I gave the landlord 6 months ahead in rent. I continue to still pay rent monthly, so by June our rent will be paid for the year. I was able to give him that money because I had also received a lump sum after he did.
SO seems to think he is the only reason we are ahead.
No. He WAS the reason initially. But now, I am the reason, because it was MY money that paid the 6 months ahead the second time. If I hadn't of paid that, we would not be ahead today.
So, is he the reason we are NOW ahead, or am I? I totally agree that HE is the reason we were ahead AT FIRST. BUT when his credit ran out I paid all that money so NOW I am the reason.
The reason the argument started was because we were fighting this morning and I told him if he was not happy he could leave. He said he wasn't leaving a place where HE had 6 months ahead in rent. Like I said, I still pay the rent monthly and he pays the bills. The rent money comes from me, the bill money comes from him and we both pay about equal.