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SO seems to think he is the reason we are 6 months ahead in rent.

SO recieved a lump sum. He paid 6 months ahead in rent.

That credit ran out in December. So, come January we had to start paying rent again.

I had some money and I gave the landlord 6 months ahead in rent. I continue to still pay rent monthly, so by June our rent will be paid for the year. I was able to give him that money because I had also received a lump sum after he did.

SO seems to think he is the only reason we are ahead.

No. He WAS the reason initially. But now, I am the reason, because it was MY money that paid the 6 months ahead the second time. If I hadn't of paid that, we would not be ahead today.

So, is he the reason we are NOW ahead, or am I? I totally agree that HE is the reason we were ahead AT FIRST. BUT when his credit ran out I paid all that money so NOW I am the reason.

The reason the argument started was because we were fighting this morning and I told him if he was not happy he could leave. He said he wasn't leaving a place where HE had 6 months ahead in rent. Like I said, I still pay the rent monthly and he pays the bills. The rent money comes from me, the bill money comes from him and we both pay about equal.

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 11, 2013 at 7:41 AM
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by on Mar. 11, 2013 at 8:04 AM
This is so ridicoulous girl. I know everyone else is saying the same shit but please just think about this; anything can happen at any time so why would you want to consume even this little bit of precious time with this petty argument? He was the reason initially and now you are the reason. You both helped each other. I'm sure you didn't mean it when you said he could leave and life is too precious for this. I know we all argue but you just have to think sometimes, "what if this was the last few minutes on earth" you would want to be happy with each other. So use that state of mind for every little second. One person doesn't do shit in a relationship its both of you. A couple. Doesn't matter who does what.... solve this, make up, hug n kiss!lol
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by Anonymous 7 on Mar. 11, 2013 at 8:11 AM

We don't have separate money. I hate how my parents do, except for when they both loan me money separately. 

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