we have a "Hold your tounge"Jar. Pretty much it is a jar, that everytime we adults cuss, or if anyone in the family speak badly of someone or whatever we need to put a quarter in a jar.
Well anyway my 10yo just came out and put a quarter in the Jar, When I asked him why he put a quarter in the jar and he said he called his brother Lazy. I told him I was glad he took responsibitly for his actions. I am very proud of him right now.