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had an abortion today

Anonymous
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I am... So hurt by this. My sister is 16 and she got pregnant by some random guy that she met online. Turns out he was 29 and married(she advertised that she was 23 and married and looking for an affair). Well my sister felt no connection with this baby... At all. She was going to put it up for adoption and I offered to take the baby. She eagerly agreed. Dh and I did everything for this little bitch. We moved her into our home, bought her a car and everything she needed because she was carrying our future child. Its been two months, shes now 3 and she hasn't grown... AT ALL. Her belly is flat. so i grow suspicious and ask accompany her to the dr appointment(dh and i went to the first one.but not the others because we work and have two three year olds). She comes up with every excuse of why we shouldn't go. I got so pissed that I told her to take a test. She took it after locking her in the bathroom and it came back negative. She says she got an abortion two weeks ago because her boyfriend (a 16 year old) made her do it. I'm freaking besides myself right now. I'm livid! How could she do this to us?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 12, 2013 at 1:13 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 12, 2013 at 1:15 PM
I'm sorry
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 12, 2013 at 1:16 PM
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Her body. Her choice.
Mommy2b2many
by on Mar. 12, 2013 at 1:17 PM
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I am so sorry that she used you (that's what it sounds like happened). :(
NiamhWitch
by Platinum Member on Mar. 12, 2013 at 1:17 PM
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The only thing I think she did wrong was not tell you about it and took your charity under false pretenses.  However, this is also a scared 16 year old girl.  Hopefully her boyfriend didn't actually "make" her get the abortion and she instead made the choice on her own.  Her body, her choice.

I am sorry that she was not up front with you about it though.

yo_ho
by Silver Member on Mar. 12, 2013 at 1:18 PM
Im sorry she wasn't honest with you :(
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 12, 2013 at 1:18 PM
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Doesn't excuse the lying.

Quoting Anonymous:

Her body. Her choice.
Sister.Menses
by Silver Member on Mar. 12, 2013 at 1:18 PM
I can understand. She was milking yall, and everyday you were falling more in love with the baby. Hang in there.
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aprilsalcro
by Platinum Member on Mar. 12, 2013 at 1:18 PM
This.

Quoting Anonymous:

Her body. Her choice.
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Mar. 12, 2013 at 1:18 PM
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That is awful

Take the car away and tell her to move out....smdh

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crescentstar2
by Anne on Mar. 12, 2013 at 1:19 PM

why isn't the guy charged with stachatory rape, I'm sorry she did that to you

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