My dh hasn't been talking to me at all. He can't ever just chill and sit and relax with me. And it bothers me. Every day he comes home for lunch, and he never says anything. He makes himself something to eat, watches tv, and sometimes takes a nap if he has time. Then it's out the door back to work. Then he comes home from work and watches tv or something around the house if I ask him too and then tries for sex, if I say no, then he does it himself then gets in bed, watches more tv, then passes out.
Last nite I went to bed early bc I wasn't feeling good and he said he was gonna be up after walking the dog so he could spend some time with me, that was 8pm. So he gets to our room, trys for sex, I said I wasn't feeling good, so he took a bath did his thing, then came back to bed and went to bed. REALLY? That's quality time? And when I do try to talk to him, I NEVER have his full attention on just me.
He came home from work for lunch today, and I said " Babe, how come you don't talk to me anymore? I feel like we never talk anymore" he said " I just don't have anything to say" and I said " I have tons to talk about and I never leave the house, you leave and go to work, there has to be something you wanna talk about or complain about, laugh about or something" and he just shrugged ((while I'm saying all this he's just watching tv, not even looking at me)) And I said "well just because your ok with it doesn't mean that I should be ok with us not talking, because I'm not babe, I don't like that we don't talk at all, the only time I have your full attention is when you try to have sex with me" and he just said " Ah" .....my heart sank...and I just said " Nevermind" and I went outside and smoked a cig and tried to hold my tears in. It's like he doesn't care..
And another thing, he comes home from lunch at 11 and doesn't have to be back til 1, and it seems like everyday he leaves earlier and earlier...today he left at 12:12...he works like 2 minutes away ???? I don't get it...And to make matters even worse ( which might not seem bad you some of you ladies, which I don't mind it either, but it's just the fact that he's leaving early from me to go sit in his car til he has to be at work ) when he's at work early he looks at porn on his phone tiil he has to be in at work. I don't care about porn, it's the fact that it makes me feel like he would rather do that then stay at home til he REALLY has to leave...Ughh..I don't know what to do. I don't feel satisfied in any aspect of our marriage...Advice please ladies...