You'll feel differently when they are biological...
I told my friend that I do not kiss my stepkids on the lips, this is what she said to me.
No, no I won't feel differently, actually.
My mom/dad didn't kiss me on the mouth. My mom told us that's not appropriate. My stepparents didn't do it either. Neither do grands, aunts, uncles, etc. Nor does DH's family.
Yes biomom and her family do it. Yes, it's pretty common around here. Lots of my friends kiss their little ones/parents/siblings on the mouth.
I don't have any problem with biomom doing it. I don't.
And when it's my biokid, I won't do it either. It has nothing to do with birthing them. I kiss my significant other on the mouth. Nobody else.
So a couple questions.
1. Do you kiss your kids on the mouth? Adopted, bio, step? What about Nieces or Nephews?
2. Has anyone ever told you something would be different for your biokid, and you wanted to be like "Actually, no dumbass, it wouldn't?" What was the sitch?