My DD was adopted when she was 12 before Dh and I took her in she was sexual abused by her Bio mom's bf he would also sell her. It was found out after she had to be taken to the hospital because one of the men beat and raped her so bad she almost died. She is now an amazing loving 19 year old. My problem is she still has a hard time in her life with this I know this will be life long but I worry that she will end up in jail I worry she might hurt a child. I recently found letters her and her bf had been writing to each other they are very graphic and are full details of things that happened to her and him. He was also sexual abused as a child. I don't think it's healthy for them to be together because I think they get a thrill off of each others abuse. I know she is an adult and can do what she wants but I want to help them I'm just not sure how.
Has anyone ever had to deal with something like this does anyone have any advice. Please I really feel at a loss to not mention it or to ask her about going to therapy again.
I say they get off on each other abuse because the letters say how they want to recreate these things. How they wish they could relive the feelings