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"Child-led" anything is a crock of BS..

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

YOU are the leader in your house, not the child....child led this, child led that...what a crock of shit

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:25 AM
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TwinmomAlicia
by on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:31 AM
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God forbid my children have input in their own life! You'd think they were...people or something!
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SoKamele
by on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:31 AM

I concur.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:32 AM
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Sure, if you want a 3+ year old in diapers.


Quoting mamatocaleb:

 I will give you one example where you are wrong. POTTY TRAINING. You can do everything in your power to make it happen, but if they are not ready it wont happen. Hence- Child-led potty training..


NNB
by on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:32 AM
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Exactly. Children have no feelings, destroy any sense of a sould you may sense.

Kids are people too! Shame a lot of people just see them as little things that need to be brought into line. spanked for this, ounished for that,

I'm not against discipline, but only when it is necessary, not for simple, stupid things that kids out grow!

Quoting zianneaaliyah:

The idea of someone actually considering their child's feelings must be horrible!


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:32 AM
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but some parents don't even TRY  to teach their child....the kid is now four, and still saying, 'but i don't WANT to use the toilet, i like my diaper'...that is ridiculous


Quoting mamatocaleb:

 I will give you one example where you are wrong. POTTY TRAINING. You can do everything in your power to make it happen, but if they are not ready it wont happen. Hence- Child-led potty training..



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:33 AM

i dont' give a flying fuck who agrees with me or not... I think its a crock o shit


Quoting true-love-21:

If you think you will have a lot of people agree with you then your wrong lol



iamcafemom83
by Ruby Member on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:33 AM
Actually I disagree. As soon as the signs were there, I led my child to train. I didn't wait until they put themselves in underwear.

Quoting mamatocaleb:

 I will give you one example where you are wrong. POTTY TRAINING. You can do everything in your power to make it happen, but if they are not ready it wont happen. Hence- Child-led potty training..

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norwgnwood
by Platinum Member on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:33 AM
She doesn't know.

Quoting Neuro:

Can someone tell me what OP is talking about?

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FooLynRoo
by on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:34 AM

I don't know about this "child-led" bullshit but 

DH and I are the boss of our house, but we are not dictators.

our son was always someone who is part of this ship and has a say in how its run.

true-love-21
by on Mar. 16, 2013 at 8:34 AM
Its basically just like positive parenting. No spankings...etc. Google it, they can explain it better than me lol. I think to some degree its crap but a lot of what they say makes sence, but every child is different.

Quoting Neuro:

Can someone tell me what OP is talking about?

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