how is children of the same gender sharing a room abusive or sad? What is everyone supposed to buy an 8 bedroom house before they have kids? Where I live u can't really get a house with more then 4 sometimes 5 bedrooms. So those parents are restricted to 3 or 4 kids? I shared a room with my sister growing up and loved it and my kids share and love it! Its NOT abusive... Stupid ignorant people.