Ok its driving me crazy! This woman I work rather closely with. Had a bf, they had an oops and the condom broke(apparently) and well her and her bf had a daughter. Now keep in mind she is one of those women with "princess syndrom" where she thinks she is entitled to everything she wants, and shes very hard to handle. Its always me me me with her. Well He is a great father to their daughter and was even a good boyfriend, never was nasty, never cheated, helped cook, clean always took care of the baby. he is just over all a great guy. I know them both personally rather well. Well after a bit he just couldn't quite take it anymore, and he broke up with her. He was sweet about it just said they didn't mesh very well and they wanted different things and that she deserved someone more like her.(what she told me) well now its been 5 months and alls she does is whine and conplain about him over stupid things, No matter what he does she hates it. She is so bitter over him breaking up with her, she is getting $1000.00 a month in child support for a 10month old. even though he doesn't make much. How she got that much is beyond me. She is always messing with his visitation because she doesn't like his car(toyota camry) and thinks that he should buy a bmw...wtf? really? She doesn't like his parents because they own guns so says he cant take his daughter to see his parents(their guns are in a locked cabinet in a locked basement, they are hunting guns) She cant get to them! She finds every excuse to screw this poor guy over all because shes bitter. And alls she does is go on and on about it. Alls I want to do is shake her and yell "Get over it, he didn't hurt you he just broke up with you, hes a good father and you should appreciate that he is, and wants to be with your child as much as he can. You are lucky to have him as your childs father stop being a selfish whiney b!t$%!!!!" UGH I hate women like that when they have no reason to have bad feelings for or to screw over their ex but do because they are bitter. It just hurts the kids, get over yourself lady seriously.
Sorry was so long, had to get this out so I didn't end up going off on her. Do you agree though that some women need to just let it go and grow up for their kids?