My fiance and I are friends with this married couple that we have known since high school. We have been in and out of contact but for the last 3 year we have been solid on our friendship...or so I thought. The male friend is best man in our upcoming wedding, we go to each others kids bdays, we do dinners, same softball team, etc. Me and the girl aren't super close like my fiance and her husband but we talk a decent amount and don't have any issues...or so i thought. Tonight is the girls birthday. Last week on facebook she made an invite to her birthday dinner and invited all of our mutual friends. We weren't invited. Not by facebook or text or a phone call. We found out from another friend about it last week and ive been upset all week trying to rack my brain on what the fuck the issue is. So this am I get a text saying hey my husband dropped the ball, im having dinner tonight for my bday let him know if you guys wanna go. REALLY? what do any of you make of this? wtf do i say or do? we obviously didnt go and im really bothered by this.