Pictures of herself smoking on Facebook . Also she claims on FB that she is gay and likes pot and alcohol . She lives in another state with her mom and I showed my DH. He does not seem concerned. Said he did "that" at that age too. Also telling boys to come over to her friends house at 3 am. I would be livid if this was my child. Hell I show more concern than her own father. What would you do? Should I just forget about it and move on? It's nuts my SD needs help now . How come her biological parents don't care? Advice please .
UPDATE: My DH spoke to my SD'S older sister. The sister said not only is all of the above going on, but also SD is hanging out with a coke dealer at 14. The mother of these girls (DH ex) is allowing all this to go on because she is on drugs herself and don't care. Help-where do we go from here? Thank goodness my DH cares enough to make calls. How do I help this young lady before she ruins her life? On the other hand....is it none of my business?