My ex is not a part of my los life, at all, in any way. But still I send him pictures twice a year. Once on fathers day and again at Christmas. I just put a few inside a generic card and sign my los name to it. We speak maybe three times a year and only concerning my lo. We spoke yesterday and I asked him if he got the pictures I sent at Christmas. He said no. I guess he asked his wife because he sent me a text later asking me not to send anymore. I asked why, and he all her said was that they were intercepted!
I think they're both pos and I can't believe any woman would throw out a childs pictures!