Sperm donors

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One of my pet peeves is when women refer to the father of their children as sperm donors. Seriously? You had sex with him. Yes he put his sperm in you and yes he may not want to be a father but he's not a sperm donor. You don't get child support from sperm donors, they are not the daddy, they don't get visitation, they don't have to go to court to fight you. Sperm donors give their sample to sperm banks who then sell the sperm to be implanted into a women to create a baby. If you had sex with a guy and he doesn't want to be a dad or pay child support or see the child he is not a sperm donor, he is your baby daddy. Could also be your ex husband, ex boyfriend, ex fiance, etc but he is not a sperm donor.


I also find 'baby daddy' more disgusting than 'sperm donor'


The term sperm donor is different than a guy that walks out though. Even a one night stand that didn't want to be a dad is more than a sperm donor. IMO I don't like the term baby daddy but I like it more than sperm donor. At least it's more accurate.
Quoting ninjakids:
Most people who i know that use that terms childs bio dad was nothing more than a sperm donor... Not everyone runs to get child support.
I also find 'baby daddy' more disgusting than 'sperm donor'

You're missing my point. He is not a sperm donor. He didn't jerk off into a cup and you didn't pay to have his sperm artificially inseminate you. Was he your husband?
Quoting Anonymous:
In the case of my daughter that isn't true. He is a sperm donor. No visitstions, won't pay his cs, and has only seen her once when she was 3 weeks old. His other kids are more important. Not that he sees them either. Oh well im happy it turned out how it did. She is better off.


he dont pay for child support just bitches more then a woman

No,In my daughter's case,He is most definitely a sperm donor,As soon as i told him i was pregnant,he put me on a plane and shipped me off to my parents,I went through the pregnany pretty much on my own,Except for when i was 4 months pregnant and he visited me for a month,went to ONE appointment,Found time to screw my "best friend" then went back to AR and broke up with,My daughter is 9 months old now,and he has literally never seen her,even one time,He wants nothing to do with her,pays no child support,didn't wanna be on the birth certificate and and now wants to sign away the rights he doesn't have