That's what he said anyway. And then said he didn't mean it and he was "joking."
I was talking with my mom yesterday morning on the phone. She had my kids over night and was going to take them to they church they go to yesterday, but when I took their dirty clothes home Saturday night, and brought back church clothes, I forgot to get their shoes. So they were there with NO shoes to wear (they had sandles on and I had taken them home with me).
She was trying to talk me into going to their church, one I used to go to but have since quit and I was telling her no, we're going to the church we're now members of, we'll drop the kids shoes off with her on our way. She kept on and so I told her, "Mom. I'm done with this conversation." and when I said that DH snapped up, "I'm done with you."
I said, "Do WHAT?" and he wouldn't say it again. Mom's on the phone repeating herself every time I say "what?"....I got tired of it so I just dropped the phone and kept asking him to repeat what he said. He still wouldn't, and I guess mom realized I wasn't on my phone any more so she called DH's and asked what was going on and I just said, "We'll be by there with shoes in about 35 minutes." and threw his phone down.
He still wouldn't repeat himself so I told him "If I heard correctly, you're done with me?? Well, pack your shit and get out." And I went and started throwing his clothes out of the closet while crying my eyes out. He came in there and said he was joking because he heard me telling mom over and over that I was done with the conversation. I guess it makes sense, I don't know.....but I've spent all day yesterday and so far all day today crying. I don't know what to think, say, or do :(