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Anonymous
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I have been watching our Verizon page to see DHs activity and notice a number that he is constantly texting even at 6am when he gets to work. I looked on his phone but the messages are not there ...so he is deleting them.. I looked at the address book noticed its a girls number ,a friend he has had since school many moons ago (long story)
Any way THOUGHTS
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:34 PM
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happy41ce
by on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:35 PM
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thoughts? well of he thinks he needs to delete them then he is doing something wrong and needs to be confronted. OR you can wait till he is sleeping and start a convo with the person and catch him.

nicolemead91
by on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:36 PM
Kick him to the curb!! No time for all that drama!!
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armywifey26
by Krissy on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:37 PM
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If he is deleting them then my first thought is he has something to hide. 

KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:37 PM
My best friend is a guy that I've been close to for 15 years. We text all the time.

I never delete them, because I wouldn't care if DH saw.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:39 PM
Thank you for the idea





Quoting happy41ce:

thoughts? well of he thinks he needs to delete them then he is doing something wrong and needs to be confronted. OR you can wait till he is sleeping and start a convo with the person and catch him.


rockgal81
by Steph on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:40 PM
Either he is cheating or you are the insecure type who snoops and he knows you will flip out if you find out he's talking with an old friend who happens to be a woman.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:40 PM

Thoughts? If you have nothing to hide you hide nothing. He's at the very least interested in cheating if he isn't already.

hotmama83227
by Silver Member on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:40 PM

 thoughts are, if he's deleting messages, its something he doesn't want you to see, and thats never good

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:41 PM
That's how I feel


Quoting armywifey26:

If he is deleting them then my first thought is he has something to hide. 


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 18, 2013 at 10:41 PM
Does he delete all his messages? If not, there is definitely something up! This is exactly how I caught my exhusband cheating. Saw it on the bill, stole his phone while he was sleeping, and simply sent a message to the number saying 'hey, how you doing'. The response gave me all the info I needed (sadly)
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