You know what is sad and pathetic?

[Anonymous]

When you had more freedom at 14 than you do now. I remember partying, getting high, hanging out with whoever we wanted to, hitch hiking, staying the night with random strangers who we met that day and did drugs with and stayed the night with, etc. I'm not saying I want to do all that now, but I'd like to have some freedom back. My best friend has been out of state for almost a year (she's the one I did all of that with) and this is the only couple of days she'll be in town. So, she says tomorrow she's getting a nice hotel room and wants to catch up with all of her friends. Me and her are BEST friends. We always have been, we lived together, etc. you know who isn't going? ME. Why? Because my boyfriend says another guy might be there. You know, another guy will be there. The stepdad she grew up with and one other guy who is into HER not me! "Oh but what if he says something flirty to you?" I BRUSH IT OFF, IT ISN'T LIKE HE JUST GRABBED MY BOOB! But no! I can't fuc*ing go! I can't wait to be independent and not have to rely on someone else!

vent over

[armywifey26]

Why are you letting him dictate your life? He isn't even your husband. 

[paganmommy4]

Um, youre an adult so if you want to go GO

[Anonymous 2]

I be damned if I'd let my dh tell me I couldn't go. I'm an adult and I don't need permission. I guess that's why I'm thrilled dh trusts me and for good reason.

[Anonymous 3]

I would go anyway he isn't your boss...you're not a child.

[sandra_t00]

Fuck that fool. Go!

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

Because currently he is my financial support until I can get a job back.

Quoting armywifey26:

Why are you letting him dictate your life? He isn't even your husband. 

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

He is my financial support until I can find another job. I don't even have a car anymore. So, he is my ride to the job (that I'm hoping to find ASAP) to get out of this situation.

Quoting Anonymous:

I would go anyway he isn't your boss...you're not a child.

[stickyfingers]

You can have all the freedom you want, just stop allowing his insecurities rule your life. That's shit he needs to deal with. You know what? There might be a guy who thinks your hot when you are at the grocery store, or getting gas in the car who knows but he can't keep you away from other men forever, seriously he will respect you more if you demand it

[gigis1]

Been there, hope you get out of that hell hole soon !!

[stickyfingers]

So because he supports you, he gets to dictate what you do? Are you a hooker?

Quoting Anonymous:

He is my financial support until I can find another job. I don't even have a car anymore. So, he is my ride to the job (that I'm hoping to find ASAP) to get out of this situation.

Quoting Anonymous:

I would go anyway he isn't your boss...you're not a child.