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Are fourth graders having sex? *Update* UPDATE#2 HUGE!!!

Posted by on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:02 AM
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 My son is in 4th grade.. Hes 10.

He came home from school yesterday and just has to tell me about the things this boy in his class told him. Im listening. This CHILD told my CHILD he watches sex online. That he seen a man put his penis in a girl butt, pee, and the pee came out her mouth o.O First, WTF. Second, thats impossibile. He then goes on to tell him other anal videos hes watches, oral and "regular". That its ok if a girl wont let you put it in her butt, you can use her mouth!!!

He told him how he goes to red tube (? never heard of it) and watches this. Says you can even tell girls what to do. He tells them to take their clothes off, and they do it! And, that when Jordan (my son) gets home, he should go right to his room, lock the door, and go check out redtube! WTF!!

He goes even firther to tell him he has had sex before. I dont buy it, but you NEVER KNOW. Maybe he is being molested, and is confused? And, how you can sneak and touch girls boobs. And that once, he touched a much older girls boob and she said she liked it!

 

My jaw? DOWN TO THE EFFING FLOOR. I am ever so grateful we have raised our child well and he came RIGHT to me, not the computer.

I called the school and the phone just rang. It always does that after 4:00, and Jordan doesnt get home until 4. So, I wrote a letter. For many reasons. One, if his parents are unaware, and I would assume and hope they are, they NEED to know what their child is doing online! And two, what if he has had sexual interaction? What if hes been abused and thinks its something else?

Waiting for the school to call. Im sure they will...

Ok, no they wont. Just happened to see my long letter, laying on the couch. He forgot it. Im calling now. Ill update!

 

**Just called. The secretary said I need to speak with the assitant principal and she is in a meeting. Took down my info and will have her call me back!

 

* Vp just called.. As soon as I started talking she gasped. Kept saying oh my.. oh my gosh.. She said she has heard some stuff but never anything liked this. She was pretty shocked. She said she would not speak to and embarrass jordan unless I wanted her to. I told her it was fine, I already prepared him and told him not be be shy- it was important. She said she was going to put his class on alert, and inform all the special area teachers and lunch ladies to keep ears out for the conversations amongst those students. When I told her the boys name she knew him right away. I dont know if thats a good or bad thing. She kept oh my gosh, I cant believe.. Then said she would be taking appropriate action, of course getting in contact with his parents, and that was all. End of convo.

 I know its not my business anymore, but I wish she could update me.

When jordan gets home I will ask him if he was called to the office. If so, Ill update again.

 

**UPDATE 2!!

The vp called! She said she just wanted to thank me for calling, and no shrugging this off as some boys will be boys thing. She talked to m__ and his answers shed some light on some disturbing things. She said that she didnt need to, and wont be, talking to jordan- the boys own answers were enough and the links and photos all real. She said he has been getting things from an ONLINE stranger and authorities are now involved. She then said thats all she is allowed to say, she and his parents, just wanted to truly thank me!!

 

im SUPER shocked. NEVER imagined this. Im soooo glad I called. So glad. That poor boy :(

She also told me to thank Jordan for coming to me right away, and to ask him to please not tell any of his classmates.

 


♥Life's not always about trying to push through the storm, its about learning to dance in the rain!

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catherine_b
by Bronze Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:05 AM
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O.M.G.

I am speechless and have no clue what I would do :/
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HipLikeJunk
by Gold Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:05 AM
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I don't even know what to say. Just... wow. 

Good luck, and you seem to be handling it well. 

LaughingCheetah
by Bobbie :) on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:06 AM
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Wow. this makes me want to cry!!!
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Tiffanydshives
by Bronze Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:07 AM

 bump

 

owl0210
by Emerald Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:07 AM
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OMG how does he even know about that porn site? That really breaks my heart. Innocence lost....

lucky2Beeme
by Ruby Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:08 AM
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I could vomit right now.

RaynesMommy07
by Platinum Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:09 AM
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That's just sad. He's still a child and growing up way too fast. :/
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JDmommyJD
by ♥Awesome Sauce♥ on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:09 AM
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 I know. Im saddened and appalled at the same time. And, sad that my son has heard all of this. Hes too young for all of those vulgar images to even be in his head. :(

Quoting owl0210:

OMG how does he even know about that porn site? That really breaks my heart. Innocence lost....

 

mommy_me
by ~The Three B's~ on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:09 AM
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wow this is bad and I don't agree with anything that child is doing, at 10 years old they are very curious. I think the boys just talking good game to try to get attention and get Manly points from other boys. I think the parents need to be made aware of the situation go from there I do not think it's a job for the school to handle I think you need to reach out to the other boys parents
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by Anonymous on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:10 AM
I used to feel between a boys legs and he liked it so I did it more.
It was 4-5th grade.
I do t think I really realized the sexuality if it but when I look at my boys and think back I shudder
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