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Are fourth graders having sex? *Update* UPDATE#2 HUGE!!!

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 My son is in 4th grade.. Hes 10.

He came home from school yesterday and just has to tell me about the things this boy in his class told him. Im listening. This CHILD told my CHILD he watches sex online. That he seen a man put his penis in a girl butt, pee, and the pee came out her mouth o.O First, WTF. Second, thats impossibile. He then goes on to tell him other anal videos hes watches, oral and "regular". That its ok if a girl wont let you put it in her butt, you can use her mouth!!!

He told him how he goes to red tube (? never heard of it) and watches this. Says you can even tell girls what to do. He tells them to take their clothes off, and they do it! And, that when Jordan (my son) gets home, he should go right to his room, lock the door, and go check out redtube! WTF!!

He goes even firther to tell him he has had sex before. I dont buy it, but you NEVER KNOW. Maybe he is being molested, and is confused? And, how you can sneak and touch girls boobs. And that once, he touched a much older girls boob and she said she liked it!

 

My jaw? DOWN TO THE EFFING FLOOR. I am ever so grateful we have raised our child well and he came RIGHT to me, not the computer.

I called the school and the phone just rang. It always does that after 4:00, and Jordan doesnt get home until 4. So, I wrote a letter. For many reasons. One, if his parents are unaware, and I would assume and hope they are, they NEED to know what their child is doing online! And two, what if he has had sexual interaction? What if hes been abused and thinks its something else?

Waiting for the school to call. Im sure they will...

Ok, no they wont. Just happened to see my long letter, laying on the couch. He forgot it. Im calling now. Ill update!

 

**Just called. The secretary said I need to speak with the assitant principal and she is in a meeting. Took down my info and will have her call me back!

 

* Vp just called.. As soon as I started talking she gasped. Kept saying oh my.. oh my gosh.. She said she has heard some stuff but never anything liked this. She was pretty shocked. She said she would not speak to and embarrass jordan unless I wanted her to. I told her it was fine, I already prepared him and told him not be be shy- it was important. She said she was going to put his class on alert, and inform all the special area teachers and lunch ladies to keep ears out for the conversations amongst those students. When I told her the boys name she knew him right away. I dont know if thats a good or bad thing. She kept oh my gosh, I cant believe.. Then said she would be taking appropriate action, of course getting in contact with his parents, and that was all. End of convo.

 I know its not my business anymore, but I wish she could update me.

When jordan gets home I will ask him if he was called to the office. If so, Ill update again.

 

**UPDATE 2!!

The vp called! She said she just wanted to thank me for calling, and no shrugging this off as some boys will be boys thing. She talked to m__ and his answers shed some light on some disturbing things. She said that she didnt need to, and wont be, talking to jordan- the boys own answers were enough and the links and photos all real. She said he has been getting things from an ONLINE stranger and authorities are now involved. She then said thats all she is allowed to say, she and his parents, just wanted to truly thank me!!

 

im SUPER shocked. NEVER imagined this. Im soooo glad I called. So glad. That poor boy :(

She also told me to thank Jordan for coming to me right away, and to ask him to please not tell any of his classmates.

 


♥Life's not always about trying to push through the storm, its about learning to dance in the rain!

by on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:02 AM
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anlei05
by Ruby Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:20 AM
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That's some scary stuff. You never know what kids are exposed to nowadays.

A few years back I read online about kindergartners giving oral sex in school somewhere in New York. Ugh. Smh.

Thank goodness you have a son who still talks to his parents. Sounds like you've done a good job with him.

I look forward to this update...

ColleenF30
by Lube Girl on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:21 AM
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Oh redtube...kid is gonna get virused.

JDmommyJD
by ♥Awesome Sauce♥ on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:22 AM
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 I will. Im just sittin gby the phone... waiting. Kind of anxious. I already told Jordan he will get called to the office today. To not be embarassed, shy or feel bad for "telling" on his friend. Im so sickened.

Quoting TeamWillis06:

I am shocked. This awful. An update of what happens next would be nice.

 

JDmommyJD
by ♥Awesome Sauce♥ on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:23 AM
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 A virus? That would be good for his computer. Thats the last thing I think anyone should be concerned about.

Quoting ColleenF30:

Oh redtube...kid is gonna get virused.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:23 AM
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Quoting Anonymous:

I used to feel between a boys legs and he liked it so I did it more.

It was 4-5th grade.

I do t think I really realized the sexuality if it but when I look at my boys and think back I shudder


Wow. :-(

CanInTex
by on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:24 AM
This makes me sick :( my dd is also 10. As far as I know, no 4th graders here are having sex. She does have a "friend" (they don't hang out but at 10, everyone calls everyone friends) that says she has two boyfriends and is pregnant but doesn't know who the dad is. This same girl has a pregnant 15 y/o sister. Dd doesn't play with this girl and I've talked to her about it, she knows what the girl is saying is wrong. The school is aware.

I think you're doing the right thing.

My nephew and his friend tried ordering porno in 5th grade. To the extent that they out the wrong code in enough to lock down the entire cable box. My SIL flipped out, I doubt he's done it again, at his house anyways.
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katemckenzie
by Kate on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:24 AM

I first fooled around with a girl in 4th grade... Saw porn for the first time in 6th grade.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:25 AM
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you have a good boy, like you said, he came to you first instead of the computer. I give him props for that, Make sure you assure him he did the right thing! :)

Cutenessmom
by Gold Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:25 AM

Believe it or not it is very easy ofr kids ot get  freeonline pornograpghy site shoot youtube  seems thow this ,stuff up once a whileeven when, your not searching why i put a lock on my  computer? No one uses locks anymore?  Who lets thier four  grader have, a computer  in tihe room?   If this is true go straight up tothe  school and tell them ...  If my son locked his room I bustthe door down....

Once when, I was young around this age,  a few boys were, trying to  dry hump a few girls I went and told the teacher they got into trouble....

JDmommyJD
by ♥Awesome Sauce♥ on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:26 AM

 Good god!

Thankfully, my son spends his days running around the neighborhood with other kids shooting nerf guns. Holding on to all innocence.

:(

Quoting CanInTex:

This makes me sick :( my dd is also 10. As far as I know, no 4th graders here are having sex. She does have a "friend" (they don't hang out but at 10, everyone calls everyone friends) that says she has two boyfriends and is pregnant but doesn't know who the dad is. This same girl has a pregnant 15 y/o sister. Dd doesn't play with this girl and I've talked to her about it, she knows what the girl is saying is wrong. The school is aware.

I think you're doing the right thing.

My nephew and his friend tried ordering porno in 5th grade. To the extent that they out the wrong code in enough to lock down the entire cable box. My SIL flipped out, I doubt he's done it again, at his house anyways.

 

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