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Are fourth graders having sex? *Update* UPDATE#2 HUGE!!!

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 My son is in 4th grade.. Hes 10.

He came home from school yesterday and just has to tell me about the things this boy in his class told him. Im listening. This CHILD told my CHILD he watches sex online. That he seen a man put his penis in a girl butt, pee, and the pee came out her mouth o.O First, WTF. Second, thats impossibile. He then goes on to tell him other anal videos hes watches, oral and "regular". That its ok if a girl wont let you put it in her butt, you can use her mouth!!!

He told him how he goes to red tube (? never heard of it) and watches this. Says you can even tell girls what to do. He tells them to take their clothes off, and they do it! And, that when Jordan (my son) gets home, he should go right to his room, lock the door, and go check out redtube! WTF!!

He goes even firther to tell him he has had sex before. I dont buy it, but you NEVER KNOW. Maybe he is being molested, and is confused? And, how you can sneak and touch girls boobs. And that once, he touched a much older girls boob and she said she liked it!

 

My jaw? DOWN TO THE EFFING FLOOR. I am ever so grateful we have raised our child well and he came RIGHT to me, not the computer.

I called the school and the phone just rang. It always does that after 4:00, and Jordan doesnt get home until 4. So, I wrote a letter. For many reasons. One, if his parents are unaware, and I would assume and hope they are, they NEED to know what their child is doing online! And two, what if he has had sexual interaction? What if hes been abused and thinks its something else?

Waiting for the school to call. Im sure they will...

Ok, no they wont. Just happened to see my long letter, laying on the couch. He forgot it. Im calling now. Ill update!

 

**Just called. The secretary said I need to speak with the assitant principal and she is in a meeting. Took down my info and will have her call me back!

 

* Vp just called.. As soon as I started talking she gasped. Kept saying oh my.. oh my gosh.. She said she has heard some stuff but never anything liked this. She was pretty shocked. She said she would not speak to and embarrass jordan unless I wanted her to. I told her it was fine, I already prepared him and told him not be be shy- it was important. She said she was going to put his class on alert, and inform all the special area teachers and lunch ladies to keep ears out for the conversations amongst those students. When I told her the boys name she knew him right away. I dont know if thats a good or bad thing. She kept oh my gosh, I cant believe.. Then said she would be taking appropriate action, of course getting in contact with his parents, and that was all. End of convo.

 I know its not my business anymore, but I wish she could update me.

When jordan gets home I will ask him if he was called to the office. If so, Ill update again.

 

**UPDATE 2!!

The vp called! She said she just wanted to thank me for calling, and no shrugging this off as some boys will be boys thing. She talked to m__ and his answers shed some light on some disturbing things. She said that she didnt need to, and wont be, talking to jordan- the boys own answers were enough and the links and photos all real. She said he has been getting things from an ONLINE stranger and authorities are now involved. She then said thats all she is allowed to say, she and his parents, just wanted to truly thank me!!

 

im SUPER shocked. NEVER imagined this. Im soooo glad I called. So glad. That poor boy :(

She also told me to thank Jordan for coming to me right away, and to ask him to please not tell any of his classmates.

 


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by on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:02 AM
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JDmommyJD
by the sauce is boss on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:37 AM

 where the hell did you go to school? Holy crap!

Quoting Anonymous:

I remember in 4th grade the boys would always grab our butts. Other times the fresh boys would show their penises. Then there was this freak who jumped on me and was dry humping me. Scared me.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:37 AM
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yikes,  bumping to hear how this goes!   poor kid!  hes a BABY.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:38 AM
Bump for update
Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:38 AM
My husband had sex at 10 so it is possible.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 13 on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:38 AM
I was shocked when my friend told me she caught her ds11 (my son's classmate) looking up ejaculation on Google. Holy shit.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:38 AM


Quoting JDmommyJD:

 where the hell did you go to school? Holy crap!


Quoting Anonymous:

I remember in 4th grade the boys would always grab our butts. Other times the fresh boys would show their penises. Then there was this freak who jumped on me and was dry humping me. Scared me.

 

me-n-mygirls
by Silver Member on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:39 AM
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 OH EM GEE!!

I am floored you went through that but honestly at the end when I looked back and thought about it I am not suprised....

This is what is happening more and more.

 

Good luck momma!!   and you have a good kid.  :)

JDmommyJD
by the sauce is boss on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:39 AM
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 o.O

Quoting Anonymous:

My husband had sex at 10 so it is possible.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:39 AM
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I've had frank discussions with my 10 year old regarding sex as I feel that is very important.  However, no 10 year old should be familiar with what that little boy described.  That worries me and makes me feel like he has been abused.  No child that age should have free access to a computer either.

My child seems so innocent now compared to this.  She plays outside all the time, rollerblades, makes duct tape projects, etc...

How sad. :(

Anonymous
by Anonymous 15 on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:39 AM
Or dad watches it and accidentally left the page open and kid saw it and got hooked.


Quoting JDmommyJD:

 I think there is more to it. No child, unaffected by anything else or influence, would just search for a site like that. Not at the age. Its either been going on for a while or there is an outside influence. I would think anyway.


Quoting ColleenF30:


Well considering it probably isn't "his" computer. I don't wish a computer virus on anyone. Many kids at that age have found porn. it doesn't surprise me in the least. What I have to wonder is where are the parents while he is online? Sounds like they have just cut him loose on the interwebz or are trying to rely on security features (which many kids know how to get around) to keep him out of the stuff.


Quoting JDmommyJD:


 A virus? That would be good for his computer. Thats the last thing I think anyone should be concerned about.


Quoting ColleenF30:


Oh redtube...kid is gonna get virused.


 




 


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