Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Mom Confessions Mom Confessions

Are fourth graders having sex? *Update* UPDATE#2 HUGE!!!

Posted by   + Show Post

 My son is in 4th grade.. Hes 10.

He came home from school yesterday and just has to tell me about the things this boy in his class told him. Im listening. This CHILD told my CHILD he watches sex online. That he seen a man put his penis in a girl butt, pee, and the pee came out her mouth o.O First, WTF. Second, thats impossibile. He then goes on to tell him other anal videos hes watches, oral and "regular". That its ok if a girl wont let you put it in her butt, you can use her mouth!!!

He told him how he goes to red tube (? never heard of it) and watches this. Says you can even tell girls what to do. He tells them to take their clothes off, and they do it! And, that when Jordan (my son) gets home, he should go right to his room, lock the door, and go check out redtube! WTF!!

He goes even firther to tell him he has had sex before. I dont buy it, but you NEVER KNOW. Maybe he is being molested, and is confused? And, how you can sneak and touch girls boobs. And that once, he touched a much older girls boob and she said she liked it!

 

My jaw? DOWN TO THE EFFING FLOOR. I am ever so grateful we have raised our child well and he came RIGHT to me, not the computer.

I called the school and the phone just rang. It always does that after 4:00, and Jordan doesnt get home until 4. So, I wrote a letter. For many reasons. One, if his parents are unaware, and I would assume and hope they are, they NEED to know what their child is doing online! And two, what if he has had sexual interaction? What if hes been abused and thinks its something else?

Waiting for the school to call. Im sure they will...

Ok, no they wont. Just happened to see my long letter, laying on the couch. He forgot it. Im calling now. Ill update!

 

**Just called. The secretary said I need to speak with the assitant principal and she is in a meeting. Took down my info and will have her call me back!

 

* Vp just called.. As soon as I started talking she gasped. Kept saying oh my.. oh my gosh.. She said she has heard some stuff but never anything liked this. She was pretty shocked. She said she would not speak to and embarrass jordan unless I wanted her to. I told her it was fine, I already prepared him and told him not be be shy- it was important. She said she was going to put his class on alert, and inform all the special area teachers and lunch ladies to keep ears out for the conversations amongst those students. When I told her the boys name she knew him right away. I dont know if thats a good or bad thing. She kept oh my gosh, I cant believe.. Then said she would be taking appropriate action, of course getting in contact with his parents, and that was all. End of convo.

 I know its not my business anymore, but I wish she could update me.

When jordan gets home I will ask him if he was called to the office. If so, Ill update again.

 

**UPDATE 2!!

The vp called! She said she just wanted to thank me for calling, and no shrugging this off as some boys will be boys thing. She talked to m__ and his answers shed some light on some disturbing things. She said that she didnt need to, and wont be, talking to jordan- the boys own answers were enough and the links and photos all real. She said he has been getting things from an ONLINE stranger and authorities are now involved. She then said thats all she is allowed to say, she and his parents, just wanted to truly thank me!!

 

im SUPER shocked. NEVER imagined this. Im soooo glad I called. So glad. That poor boy :(

She also told me to thank Jordan for coming to me right away, and to ask him to please not tell any of his classmates.

 


♥Life's not always about trying to push through the storm, its about learning to dance in the rain!

by on Mar. 19, 2013 at 10:02 AM
Replies (901-910):
LadyMarissa
by Silver Member on Mar. 20, 2013 at 6:16 PM

Like I said, I wouldn't know because I don't visit them...even for FREE!!!  It's also WHY I didn't accuse the parents of knowing.  Kids are pretty computer savvy now days & parents are pretty dang lazy!!!

SusanBerkley
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 6:17 PM

O.

M.

G.

CutieCrab
by Jen on Mar. 20, 2013 at 6:20 PM
1 mom liked this
Wow!!! That is insane!!
Posted on the NEW CafeMom Mobile
chrissy1123
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 7:16 PM
Ah don't be sorry it made it easier for me to spot a predator. I'm really good at seeing the signs. I wasn't looking for sympathy when I posted that I was just shocked at how common this kind of thing is becoming. Thank you though <3


Quoting JDmommyJD:

 :(


Im sorry.


Quoting chrissy1123:

Wow. My entire body is tingling and my eyes are filling up with tears as I'm sitting here reading this and holding my newborn. I was molested at that age and seeing this has brought back some aweful memories. It's gotten so much easier to take advantage of children then It was when I was 9. It's sickening. And it's not like you can keep your kids from going on the Internet because they need it for school now. My heart goes out to that little boy and his family <3

 


Posted on the NEW CafeMom Mobile
LACHESIS
by Bronze Member on Mar. 20, 2013 at 7:19 PM
1 mom liked this

You have a great kiddo. I am so sad for kids who are too mature for their age. And even worse, his parents didn't know. How scary. ;(

lucysmommy69
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 8:24 PM

redtube is a porn site


supercarp
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 8:31 PM
1 mom liked this

That is shocking. I am glad you handled it the way you did and that the school didn't drop the ball.

APChouston
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 8:37 PM
1 mom liked this
Wow...just wow. Thank you for taking the time to call the school. This boy could be the victim of an online predator and maybe that predator can be caught. I am sorry for the loss of innocence of your child. This is just sick, sick, sick! :(
JDmommyJD
by ♥Awesome Sauce♥ on Mar. 20, 2013 at 9:08 PM
When we stop sympathizing, we become cold. I know you weren't looking for it, but naturally, i felt it. I'm glad you are good at spotting all the signs now. Congrats on the new baby.

Quoting chrissy1123:

Ah don't be sorry it made it easier for me to spot a predator. I'm really good at seeing the signs. I wasn't looking for sympathy when I posted that I was just shocked at how common this kind of thing is becoming. Thank you though <3





Quoting JDmommyJD:

 :(




Im sorry.




Quoting chrissy1123:

Wow. My entire body is tingling and my eyes are filling up with tears as I'm sitting here reading this and holding my newborn. I was molested at that age and seeing this has brought back some aweful memories. It's gotten so much easier to take advantage of children then It was when I was 9. It's sickening. And it's not like you can keep your kids from going on the Internet because they need it for school now. My heart goes out to that little boy and his family <3



 



Posted on the NEW CafeMom Mobile
soniazul
by New Member on Mar. 20, 2013 at 10:36 PM
1 mom liked this

I am a 5th grade teacher reading this and thinking OMG how many of my students have had exposure like this.  With the internet and smartphones and other portable electronic devices, it just seems almost impossible that childhood will ever be the innocent thing we want it to be.  Very sad, but my hat´s off to this mom for raising a son who was raised in such a way that he noticed the twisted wrong-ness of what his classmate was telling him and was able to tell her about it!

Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)