My mother thinks that I'm manipulating my mother in law for money because she buys my son diapers. I don't ask her to buy them. I have the money to do so. However my mother in law is very kind and is always doing things for ayden and my two oldest even though I had them from my first marriage. My mother in law told me she doesn't look at our oldest any different than she does our youngest. That she will buy for them as she pleases. My mother throws a fit over this. I don't get it. You would think my mother would be happy I have a mother in law who actually loves us.