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Affairs- did you really not know

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I hear a lot of women say they were blind sided by affairs. I am just curious if you really truly didn't know or wanted to deny it?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:38 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:47 AM
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Maybe you can't help what you feel, but you CAN help what you do about it.

Quoting Anonymous:

I admit when I had an affair, it just happened, I did not think I would ever do it, but sometimes you cant help what you feel



Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:48 AM

I am a wifey.  Had an affair for 9 years, hubs never knew

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:48 AM
No, you can't help the way you feel...but you can help the way you act. In your case, you didn't even try.


Quoting Anonymous:

I admit when I had an affair, it just happened, I did not think I would ever do it, but sometimes you cant help what you feel


Toxic.Stardust
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:48 AM
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he was super drunk and thought she was me.

ACCIDENTAL CHEATING IS REAL YO

Quoting EvilAsh:

How does cheating accidentally happen?

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

well his cheating was a total accident so yes, it did come as a surprise to both of us :)



4weeman
by Silver Member on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:48 AM
I felt it. I was right.
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EvilAsh
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:49 AM
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LMAO okay. LOL. Being drunk is not an excuse to putting your penis in someone else. That's just friggin stupid. 

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

he was super drunk and thought she was me.

ACCIDENTAL CHEATING IS REAL YO

Quoting EvilAsh:

How does cheating accidentally happen?

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

well his cheating was a total accident so yes, it did come as a surprise to both of us :)




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Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:49 AM

No idea. I was shocked. I always thought he was a terrible liar and was surprised he could hide something like that. We had many convos about how awful cheating was. I was one of those women who would say that my husband would never cheat. 

Toxic.Stardust
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:49 AM
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he slipped and fell on her vagina

Quoting jenmomx3:

 How was it an accident?  Not being snarky, genuinely curious.

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

well his cheating was a total accident so yes, it did come as a surprise to both of us :)

 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:50 AM

How does one cheat on accident?

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

well his cheating was a total accident so yes, it did come as a surprise to both of us :)


sandra_t00
by ChaChi on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:50 AM
I didn't know. At all, until I just happened to look through his phone one day.
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