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Affairs- did you really not know

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
I hear a lot of women say they were blind sided by affairs. I am just curious if you really truly didn't know or wanted to deny it?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:38 AM
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by Anonymous on Jun. 7, 2013 at 1:33 PM

 

Both,  he was a friend and it happened.   Everyone knows me will say they were shocked I had an affair< I was always Ms Goody two shoes> trust me I am not proud of having an affair but I dont regret it.    As a morality issue, true it is, but God be the Judge of me.  

 We can agree to disagree.

 Again.  I am sorry your marriage did not work out, i hope you are in a better place :)


 

Quoting Francess33:

So, which is it? Did it "just happen" or did you "find him"? Sounds like justifications to me. It's a morality issue, why not end the marriage and leave before finding someone else? My exh was never around and I was lonely, he told me our children could keep me company. Someone had to be the mature responsible one, having an affair is neither of those. I chose divorce.

Quoting Anonymous:

 No I did not love my now EXHubby, he was off somewhere else never came home or cared, so guess what?  I found somebody who cares, so I dont care what you or another CMoms say, sorry your marriage did not work out, I did not sleep with your man or anybody elses, the guy I cheated with was single..  and guess what ? I am happily married to him.. 


 


Quoting Francess33:

Bullshit. If you truly loved your SO and had any self respect and morals you would NOTdo that. My marriage was a farce and I was cheated on but I NEVER entertained the thought of cheating, even as revenge.


Quoting Anonymous:


I admit when I had an affair, it just happened, I did not think I would ever do it, but sometimes you cant help what you feel


 


 


 

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