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Affairs- did you really not know

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I hear a lot of women say they were blind sided by affairs. I am just curious if you really truly didn't know or wanted to deny it?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:38 AM
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4weeman
by Silver Member on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:51 AM
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Seriously..... You believed him? You got played.

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

he was super drunk and thought she was me.

ACCIDENTAL CHEATING IS REAL YO

Quoting EvilAsh:

How does cheating accidentally happen?

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

well his cheating was a total accident so yes, it did come as a surprise to both of us :)



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Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:51 AM
I really didn't know. He confessed what he did, we went through counseling and rebuilding and here we are a year later better and stronger than before.
KTU
by Kim on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:51 AM

Wasn't this on the Young and the Restless??? Ridge did forgive Brooke, but Hope did NOT forgive Oliver!

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

he was super drunk and thought she was me.

ACCIDENTAL CHEATING IS REAL YO

Quoting EvilAsh:

How does cheating accidentally happen?

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

well his cheating was a total accident so yes, it did come as a surprise to both of us :)




acrogodess
by Ruby Member on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:52 AM
Are you a member of the accidental cheaters support group? Lol

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

he was super drunk and thought she was me.

ACCIDENTAL CHEATING IS REAL YO

Quoting EvilAsh:

How does cheating accidentally happen?

Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

well his cheating was a total accident so yes, it did come as a surprise to both of us :)



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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:52 AM
Wait what?


Quoting Toxic.Stardust:

well his cheating was a total accident so yes, it did come as a surprise to both of us :)


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:52 AM

 

You know nothing about me or my situation at the time, so please dont even guess.

Quoting Anonymous:

No, you can't help the way you feel...but you can help the way you act. In your case, you didn't even try.


Quoting Anonymous:

I admit when I had an affair, it just happened, I did not think I would ever do it, but sometimes you cant help what you feel



 

furbabymum
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:52 AM

Psshh I totally knew. It just took a few months for me to get over the denial.

NNB
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:53 AM

I knew every single time with my ex. He was an ass, always texting her then instantly deleting the messages so I couldn't lookm visiting her and claiming to be at his grans, I was young and foolish at the time, but I eventually left,

Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:53 AM
I was with a married man for years and years. I don't know how she didn't know. We had a pretty "normal" relationship. Either she turned a blind eye or she was completely oblivious.


I've only been cheated on once. And yes I saw all the signs.
Kitschy
by on Mar. 20, 2013 at 11:53 AM

I haven't been cheated on by my husband, but when it happened with boyfriends I knew. I can't speak for other relationships but if my husband cheated he would have to drastically change his behavior and he's a lousy liar. I would know.

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