I ignored my suspicions because I thought infidelity was impossible. I was even having dreams about finding out my husband cheated on the woman he actually cheated on me with.
Quoting Stephd710:I had no idea about the first two. I had suspicions on the 3rd which led me to investigate.....then he confessed to 2 others. Now looking back the signs were there, I just wasnt looking for them.
I had no idea about the first two. I had suspicions on the 3rd which led me to investigate.....then he confessed to 2 others. Now looking back the signs were there, I just wasnt looking for them.
I think for many, once they are given concrete proof that their spouse cheated (or the spouse owned up to it), they start realizing the tell-tale signs they missed and THEN realize it was more than evident something was going on.
However, there are a lot of men and women who thought everything was OK and are sincerely blown away to find out that their spouse has been cheating on them for a very long time.
Sadly, they start doubting who they can trust at all.
I was the on the mistress side once, and I know for a FACT that the wife knew because she always was driving past my house to see if he was there, was always cornering me at the bar, and a few other things. But it was funny how fast she denied ever knowing about me when I ended up pregnant. Even told my best friend she had no idea. Bullshit she didn't know.
i think you always know. but you can be totally blind to it.
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