My girlfriend has been calling to vent for days over her DH poor choices in decision making, I call it reckless. Last weekend he went out and bought himself a $2000.00 motorcycle, cleaning out there bank accont with every penny they had in savings (He is a father of 3, one in which is a brand new baby.) Showed up at home with it and didnt care what she had to say about it, just said "too late" already done. Then yesturday without discussing it with her, he went and had himself a vasectomy, yup for REAL no joke! He said he was done having kids and didnt care what she thought, it was his body and his decision! I personally think he is over the marriage and doing anything he can to make her mad, OR he has already found someone else and is doing these things for her. He used to be a pretty reasonable guy, and she had always been happy in her marriage, now its like the marrige from hell and she is seeking answers! Anyone else think he's up to no good? Who does that!