Just set up DH's vasectomy consultation...now I'm feeling guilty. Can you tell my your vasectomy stories?
We're pregnant with our last child, this is my fourth and his fifth child. He offered to get a vasectomy months ago and I agreed. Yet, since then any time I brought up the vasectomy he didn't want to talk about it, so I figuredhe was having some second thoughts and had changed his mind, so I suggested that I do the essure procedure and he strongly disagreed saying that even though essure isn't a surgery it is still more physically invasive than him getting the vasectomy. He asked me to go ahead and set up the appointment to meet with the doctor and so I did. Now, I feel...guilty. I don't know how to explain it or why I feel this way. He's the one who suggested a vasectomy and argued for it...but I feel like I'm forcing him.
Have any of you felt this way? Did your man freak out about having a vasectomy?