I and my husband recently went through a 5 month seperation. Long story short after the birth of my son i went through a sever case of post and refused to come to terms with it in fear that people would look down on me even more. We had just moved away from my family and moved closer to his and his mother is just THE WORST!!! If you ever wanna feel like a failure as a parent just call this woman. she has a history of SEVER drug abuse and child neglect and will only admit to the drugs she will deny to this day the horrible things she put her children through because NO ONE is a better mother then this biotch. After 4 months of degrading me and patronizing me as a parent i had had enough. DH was working a lot and i hardly saw him. I had no one to vent to so i found comfort in an old friend which was a mistake. Once we worked everything out I can home. His skanky ass ex was still living there in my son's bedroom (I can say skanky because the bitch had a different guy over everynight)Things are now back to normal and Even though i feel like things have been really good between us these last 6 months and now that we are expecting our 2nd child that is not the case. I have nothing to hide but i can not tell you how annoying it is to be monitored 24/7. if my phone goes off and its not next to me the man will break his legs to get to it before i can he is always checking my email and we all get those stupid match.com spam mail every once in awhile well anytime spam like that shows up i'm cheating. I've never cheated I left him before i let it get that far. But 4 years ago after he DID cheat on me i let it go after 3 days. Idk what to do i understand we are in a delicate state but damn i mean the man lied to me for a year and i forgave him in 3 days. I leave him because i was alone and he will never trust me again. Is it even worth staying with him anymore?!!