Here's the back story..fil just texted me to tell me that dh's younger brother and his "fiancée" (he's 21 and has already had 4 fiancées lol) are expecting a baby. I said congrats and all that. Then fil asked when we would be having another. I told him that since I had a miscarriage last September, I wanted to wait a little while before trying again.
Well long story short, he's super pissed that this was the first he was hearing of the miscarriage. Dh and his father are not close at all. He lives in fl we live in pa and fil wasn't ever really in dh's life until we got pregnant with ds. He says that's as a grandparent he has the right to know and a whole bunch of other stuff.
Is he right? Are we obligated to tell family that we had a miscarriage?!