Controling (as in "No we're not going to a movie tomorrow night")
Threatening (threats as in "I'll just leave then!")
and then the obvious financial and physical abuse...
So do you think ALL of this is ABUSE? If not, which one's do you not consider abuse?
Ohhh I shouldnt have asked... I honestly dont see these things as abusive... I guess there's a reason for that though :-\
EDIT: Ok... Lets add that the "abuse" (nothing physical AT ALL) happens a few times a week but the rest of the time it is a normal, loving relationship where the people do things for each other and help each other through bad times and stuff... What say you now??