SHES not family and i refuse to acknowledge her as that..or really anything at all
My brother is 21 and has a two year old (His nickname is Sox) with a woman who is a complete bitch.
She's 19 and has no respect for anybody, She thinks shes the best thing ever and hates when my brother spends time with his family. Shes made my brother quit 3 GOOD jobs because she wanted to spend more time with him. (I know she can't MAKE him, but she threatened to take Sox and leave) She often dumps Sox off with her family and leaves for days, but we ((my side of the family) cant ever be alone with him.
I have had nothing to do with her, only my brother and Sox for the last year and a half-ish. I refused to let her sit on my new couch, she had to sit on a regular old chair. I wouldn't acknowledge that she was even at the house, i was helping serve pizza and offered everyone else a piece besides her, I didn't offer her a drink, and she ate cold pizza with nothing to drink. I made sure to make it a point to annoy her. She eventually left shortly after the party staretd and told my brother to call and she would pick up him and Sox.
We had a FUN party after she left, and she forgot her presents at my house so shes not getting them.
I know it sounds like i'm being a bitch, but she was a bigger bitch when she completly ruined the relationship my brother has with HIS family. She refused to let us see Sox for the first few months of his life, unless my brother snuck him over.
Paybacks a bitch.
Today caused even more problems between my brother and i, but once he calms down i'll explain to him why i did what i did and hope he can open his eyes and see that its her, not me