Theory: If you let him try it, he may want more, So DON'T let him try it. Edit
- The option of spending one of his entire days off to do what he wants- minus you (and/or family).
- A sexual position you find demeaning or don't like
- Going out for drinks every Friday after work.
- An open relationship, a threesome, or a poly relationship.
My df is NOT experienced when it comes to sex. I told my DF he may not enter my "backdoor" because I don't like it. I don't want him to know how it feels,prefer it or ask me to do it again. I rather leave him wondering than knowing and wishing he can do it with me again or someone else.
Some say a big part of loving someone is knowing s/he has options but prefers your choices without being FORCED to. But I don't want him to like that position if I know I don't. I don't want it on the list of things I have to sacrifice. Am I being fair?
Why would you let your s/o or Dh know how it feels to do something he may like, that you DON'T, just so he can wish he had that option.