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Posted by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 10:27 AM
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What does your SO do to show that he cares about you?  (that isnt going to an expensive dinner or movie)


Dh is saying  that since we are trying to save money,  there is nothing he can do to show that he cares about me.   This is a total bs cop out and i would love to present a list of things women say their mate does to show he cares,  that doesnt cost anything.   i expect to see replies like - he pay attention to what i say,  he always kisses/ hugs me when he gets home.   so please post the simple stuff that matters.   and if your dh/ so does something different - some new ideas - those are greatly appreciated too.    

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Lizardannie1966
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 10:29 AM

He could make dinner for you or a nice Sunday morning breakfast.

He could do the dishes, the laundry and fold the clothes.

He could give you a foot massage.

He could take care of the kid's for one day while you go out window shopping or spend time with a friend.

AleaKat
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 10:30 AM
Even though we only get "date night" once a year if that we spend out nights snuggled on the couch watching movies and laughing together.
He plays with my hair and rubs my feet.
He helps clear the table after diner.
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Amber1208
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 10:30 AM
Anything thoughtful.
Randomly picking up the vacuum or something like that rocks my socks.
Picking up your favorite candy bar.
Doing something without having to ask for help.
They even have cheap beautiful flowers at grocery stores and what not. My mother got me amazing daisies for like 4.99 for Vday.
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HelloSweetie
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 10:30 AM

Little notes left around the house, picking you up your favorite snack or drink on his way home, helping you around the house, thanking you for the little things you do that they never notice we do. A surprise hug and kiss. Date night, even if you stay in and watch a movie. Cook you a nice dinner.

UnFFnStoppable4
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 10:31 AM
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There is nothing sexier than a man doing the dishes, lol.
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spooky415
by Emerald Member on Mar. 22, 2013 at 10:31 AM
on my husband's days off he gets up early and takes DS to the park so I can sleep in. He makes me breakfast. He usually cleans up (usually). He rubs my back. He cooks (although that's cause I'm bad at it).

Stuff like that.
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grouchymama
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 10:31 AM

He holds my hand as we fall asleep.

alegna4
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 10:32 AM
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leaves for work super early before i wake up and leaves me little love notes  which i love. sometimes he'll randomly get me flowers too which is nice :)

christina0607
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 10:32 AM

He cares about me and shows genuine interest in all things that are me. 

I don't need things or questures as much as someone who is present. 

LadySlimm
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 10:32 AM

Backrubs, candlelight dinner, movie night, relaxing bath, writing me a poem, plays his guitar and sings to me, lets me relax and he does all the chores and caring for the children.

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