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Saying I love you.

Anonymous
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I was told today by my cousin that I was a weirdo for always telling my son and my nieces and nephews that I love them. Every time I talk to them I tell them that I love them. My siblings and I grew up in a household where we doubted that we were loved, never shown affection no one ever saying they loved us.

I refuse to ever let the children in my family feel unloved or think that they are not loved. Even if their own parents don't do it, they will know that someone does love them.

So am I a weirdo?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 22, 2013 at 6:39 PM
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babygirlsmom314
by Bronze Member on Mar. 22, 2013 at 6:40 PM
No you are not a weirdo. I think that is really sweet to do
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KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on Mar. 22, 2013 at 6:41 PM

 If you are, I suppose you and I can be weirdos together.

                         


There is no way to be a perfect mother, and a million ways to be a good one.

MIA0223
by Emerald Member on Mar. 22, 2013 at 6:41 PM
I was raised the same way.
DD and DS hear I love them every single day of their life!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 22, 2013 at 6:42 PM

I dont think you are a weirdo.  Your their Aunt of course you love them!

Crafty8852
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 6:42 PM
Quoting MIA0223:

I was raised the same way.
DD and DS hear I love them every single day of their life!


This, definitely this :-)
banana-bear
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 6:43 PM
I was never told that either and I was certainly made to feel unwanted. I don't want that for my kids so I tell them I love them all the time. Same with my 2 nieces.
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Bboysmommy11
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 6:43 PM
We can be weirdos together then cause I even tell my friends kids I live them, why? Because I do!!
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Muffins89
by on Mar. 22, 2013 at 6:44 PM
No.. I always tell family i love them when on the phone or leaving their home/them leaving mine.. And of course my kids get told multiple times daily as well as my df...in laws included. Its just how i grew up. And if you love someone why not tell them? Doesn't make you weird..if it does then I'm weird with you lol
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brittney28
by Brittney on Mar. 22, 2013 at 6:44 PM
Not weird. I tell everyone in my fam I love them all the time. I think it'd weird not to@
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 22, 2013 at 6:45 PM
Lol thanks ladies at least I am not alone in this.
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