my husband and i were just discussing this the other night. we were joking around about whether or not we were each others "best" and things like that.
We got on to the topic of couples who dont have a lot of sex. you hear of people going months without sex and i think that most couples only have sex once a week or so? (isnt that right? i think so. i am not totally sure though).
so here is my question...why? i seriously dont understand it. sex is so wonderful, it is fun, it feels good. i understand that sometimes there are situations where you just CANT have sex. people have to work, there are kids around, etc. But at night, when you are in your own bedroom, kids are asleep, you have a lock on the door...soooo....why not?
i know that every just gets too physically tired to do it sometimes, but if it comes down to watching tv or sex? i am most definitely picking sex. i dont know if it is something wrong with ME. maybe i am hyper sensitive during sex and it feels better than it should or something?
all i know, is that my husband and i have been together for over 8 years and are still having sex on a regular basis. usually at least 4 days a week at the very least. if we are too tired for sex, then usually i will give him a handjob and masturbate afterward. it has become such habit that now either of us have a hard time falling asleep if we dont!
If the kids are gone for awhile? look out. we will usually go 2 or 3 times before we fall asleep and then once again in the morning before we have to go pick up the kids.
okay. enough about me though.i know that my husband and i are not a "normal" couple. but i am seriously confused as to why people start having sex so rarely after they have been together for awhile? does the sex just not feel that good or does it hurt after? no orgasms? help me understand.