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dfs cousin was murdered today

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2 others in his family were shot also. They are in the hospital, they don't think the little boy that was shot in the head is going to make it.

Df grew up with his cousin in coney island new York. They Hung out every day and were best friends. Df is real upset. We live in Texas. I asked him if he wanted to fly out to new York and he said no. He won't talk to me. He's barely said 2 words all night. The last time I seen him like this is when his grandmother passed.

Is there anything I should be doing? I don't know what to do.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 23, 2013 at 1:34 AM
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Fields456
by Ruby Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 1:51 AM

I'm so sorry for y'all's loss.  It sounds like this is how he deals with loss.  Don't push him just remi d him u are there for him and if he needs you be there.   Again I am so sorry 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 23, 2013 at 1:51 AM

So sad....

Zazayam
by Ruby Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 1:51 AM

Just let him know you're there for him if he's ready to talk, and give him some space.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 23, 2013 at 1:52 AM
Wait I'm wrong that guy is not his cousin. There's another article with his cousins picture.

http://www.ny1.com/content/top_stories/179157/police-identify-suspect-in-deadly-coney-island-shooting

Quoting Anonymous:

The guy in the picture is his cousin. Idk why they used that pic. He has lots of pics on his fb and he is a good looking guy. Be also has kids. Idk how many. And I don't know much as to who it was. I only met his family in new York twice over the last 10 years. The info I've gotten has come from dfs mom who lives here in Texas. Her info is coming from family in new York.



Quoting Anonymous:

The article says the gunman knew the people he shot. Was the shooter a neighbor or how did he know them? That guy that did it looks baked.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 23, 2013 at 1:54 AM
No I was wrong. That guy isn't his cousin. There's 2 articles I was given the second one has his cousin here...

http://www.ny1.com/content/top_stories/179157/police-identify-suspect-in-deadly-coney-island-shooting

Quoting Anonymous:

Yea that could get confusing going through so many people. So the guy in the picture is your df cousin not the shooter?

Quoting Anonymous:

The guy in the picture is his cousin. Idk why they used that pic. He has lots of pics on his fb and he is a good looking guy. Be also has kids. Idk how many. And I don't know much as to who it was. I only met his family in new York twice over the last 10 years. The info I've gotten has come from dfs mom who lives here in Texas. Her info is coming from family in new York.



Quoting Anonymous:

The article says the gunman knew the people he shot. Was the shooter a neighbor or how did he know them? That guy that did it looks baked.


maryroses
by Bronze Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 1:54 AM

My husband's cousin was murdered last year.  He was pretty tore up about it too, it was his favorite cousin.  I told him I love him and I was there if he needed me and then gave him his space.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 23, 2013 at 1:54 AM

Oh ok. I was getting confused. Sorry for the loss.

Quoting Anonymous:

Wait I'm wrong that guy is not his cousin. There's another article with his cousins picture.

http://www.ny1.com/content/top_stories/179157/police-identify-suspect-in-deadly-coney-island-shooting

Quoting Anonymous:

The guy in the picture is his cousin. Idk why they used that pic. He has lots of pics on his fb and he is a good looking guy. Be also has kids. Idk how many. And I don't know much as to who it was. I only met his family in new York twice over the last 10 years. The info I've gotten has come from dfs mom who lives here in Texas. Her info is coming from family in new York.



Quoting Anonymous:

The article says the gunman knew the people he shot. Was the shooter a neighbor or how did he know them? That guy that did it looks baked.


BeiberHATER
by on Mar. 23, 2013 at 1:55 AM
Just leave him alone for awhile, he needs time process all of this.. back off.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 23, 2013 at 1:56 AM
I'm just going based off what was said to me on the phone. I kinda just scanned the articles.

Quoting D.O.E.:

the article doesnt mention a child being shot?

OneToughMami
by Ruby Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 1:59 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

News link or you're lying.

Guessing you do not live near New York that you find it hard to believe.

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