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Question: What would you think was worse

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If you found out your DH was cheating

If you found out your husband was planning on divorcing you


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Total Votes: 46

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Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 23, 2013 at 4:52 AM
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mommyof11050307
by Gold Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 4:53 AM
They are both are the same to me. Either way he'd have a divorce.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 23, 2013 at 4:54 AM
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Cheating
gigis1
by Gold Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 4:54 AM
This

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Cheating
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xomrsweaver
by Gold Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 4:56 AM

Generally, its the same thing. I think planning a divorce would be easier to come back from though. I don't know if i would stay in the marriage through either of them. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 23, 2013 at 4:57 AM

That's about what I was thinking. They're both pretty bad. What's worse is if he was cheating on you AND planning a divorce. A few years ago I caught my husband planning on cheating and planning a divorce. Long story but we're in therapy. 


Quoting mommyof11050307:

They are both are the same to me. Either way he'd have a divorce.



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 23, 2013 at 4:57 AM

Both...I can't choose either.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 23, 2013 at 4:59 AM

Wow. Everyone's saying cheating. I found my husband planning, really planning on screwing me over in a divorce. Trying to figure out how to set himself up best to get custody. This was about seven months ago, and we just had our first good days, where that feeling of mistrust momentarily left the forefront of my consciousness. And that's with him falling down, crying, apologizing, giving me all his passwords and begging me to give him another chance.

HyrulianHeroine
by on Mar. 23, 2013 at 5:05 AM
Cheating. Thier both the same feeling to me, but losing his body to another woman would hurt me on a whole another level. Since were talking hypothetically I'll assume he's leaving because he isn't ready and hell be back later lol.
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mommyof11050307
by Gold Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 5:08 AM
If I found that out he would be dead I. A heart beat.


Quoting Anonymous:

That's about what I was thinking. They're both pretty bad. What's worse is if he was cheating on you AND planning a divorce. A few years ago I caught my husband planning on cheating and planning a divorce. Long story but we're in therapy. 



Quoting mommyof11050307:

They are both are the same to me. Either way he'd have a divorce.





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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 23, 2013 at 5:13 AM

It almost ruined us. I still don't really forgive him but I'm trying.


Quoting mommyof11050307:

If I found that out he would be dead I. A heart beat.


Quoting Anonymous:

That's about what I was thinking. They're both pretty bad. What's worse is if he was cheating on you AND planning a divorce. A few years ago I caught my husband planning on cheating and planning a divorce. Long story but we're in therapy. 



Quoting mommyof11050307:

They are both are the same to me. Either way he'd have a divorce.







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