I dated my fare share of losers in my years (I'm almost 30). Back in the day men rarely ever acted like they do now. Men stood up to the plate if they got a woman pregnant, even as teens they would do the "right" thing and get married. They didn't just go cheat bc they were unhappy (of course some did, but nothing compared to now). They financially supported their families .. So what happened? I finally lucked out and found a stand up guy, but they are an almost non existant breed. I will never let my sons be the way many men are now.. Or, I can atleast raise them to Tue best of my ability so they are good men.