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It's your fault you were raped.

Posted by on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:50 AM
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Do you think it's ever a woman's fault she was raped? 

I understand that we may act foolishly and unsafe, but is that ever the same thing as basically asking to have something bad happen to you? 

I don't think it is.  I think we can protect ourselves by knowing our surroundings but I don't think rape is ever the fault of anyone but the rapist.

This is why I ask.  This was posted on Twitter last week (if you click on it it should take you to the post and you can see my conversation with Ignorant Dillhole. Feel free to tell him what you think of him.)


This guy is making my blood boil.




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by on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:50 AM
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lucky2Beeme
by Ruby Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:52 AM

I agree with you. The victim NEVER deserves it.

MeaganP
by Silver Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:54 AM
Never. No is no
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la_bella_vita
by Bella on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:54 AM


Quoting lucky2Beeme:

I agree with you. The victim NEVER deserves it.

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Raeann11
by Ruby Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:55 AM

The victim never deserves it.

Shermy
by Platinum Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:56 AM
No. Just very simply, no.
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MamaRae85
by Platinum Member on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:57 AM
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Never, ever, EVER does a woman deserve to get raped, nor does a man. I don't care who they are, I don't care what they've done. Under no circumstances ever does a person deserve rape. Ever.

EvilAsh
by on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:57 AM

I don't think anyone deserves to be raped. But I think women cry rape too often when they realize they've made a mistake and don't want to own up to it. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:58 AM
I have mixed feelings. Yes, rapist is definitely at fault, no question, but is a coincidence that rape is more prevalent as women's clothing has gotten skimpier? ....probably not.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:58 AM

I can't imagine what kind of person would ever say the victim deserved it.  In this case, two guys raped an incapacitated girl.  That is all kinds of sick.  It's also extremely telling about the character and state of mind of whoever said it.  Disgusting.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Mar. 23, 2013 at 10:58 AM

no. shit like this, makes me wonder what the original poster has done..

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