My SO's ex was getting PA and (not court ordered) CS before for years. They had been separated and months after they finally got divorced, she filed for child support. Anyways, the court asked if she was getting child support while on PA, she didn't answer and said she had a right for an attorney. Then she asked my SO if they could agree for him to pay back child support and she would just give it back to him. So that's what they agreed on when they went back to court. The thing is now she's being a total bitch about it saying that she has bills to pay, she has a BF who barely works and 2 other kids with him, just 1 kid with my SO. Well her bills are not my SO's responsibility. And now, the child support agency took all my SO's refund, 4k, for back child support. Just needed to vent.