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I think it's b****y to say "my" husband would NEVER...

Anonymous
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You know when someone posts something about their husband involving emotional, physical or sexual abuse in ANY way you women are so quick to reply with "my husband would NEVER" and "I'm glad i didn't marry a man that would do that"

These replies comes with posts as simple as someone's husband watching porn or calling them a bitch. It's so arrogant and condescending. Do you really think they purposely married an asshole or thought they would be in an abusive situation? Men don't just start off with "hey my name's bill. Sometimes I'm nice and sometimes i have a porn fetish and i will bitch slap you if you ask about it"

That's just my rant for the day. Opinions?
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 24, 2013 at 8:36 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 24, 2013 at 8:38 AM
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by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 24, 2013 at 8:40 AM
I think its the CM and ppl can be whom ever they choose lol, you want to know the real person look at their fb pages, ppl can't lie to friends and family lol
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 24, 2013 at 8:40 AM

agree..but you will probably get bashed anyway....

JDmommyJD
by the sauce is boss on Mar. 24, 2013 at 8:40 AM
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I do think its messed up when it involves abuse and weird fetishes that may later come out of the closet. When its blatant immaturity tho? Come on now...
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christina0607
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 8:41 AM
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Yes I do think some women purposely marry assholes. Women, everyday, marry men who have already been physically and or emotionally abusive to them. Not all women are taught that they can stand up for themselves, that they are I port ant and that they deserve to be treated better.

So yes some of us want to shake these women and get them to understand what real love is.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Mar. 24, 2013 at 8:41 AM
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WhoaMommy
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 8:41 AM

Agreed!

CallMeSwarley
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 8:41 AM
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I think that some people just know who they married. My husband would never hit me. I DO know that. It isn't arrogance, its truth.
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WhoaMommy
by on Mar. 24, 2013 at 8:41 AM

Oh, yes they can!

Quoting Anonymous:

I think its the CM and ppl can be whom ever they choose lol, you want to know the real person look at their fb pages, ppl can't lie to friends and family lol


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 24, 2013 at 8:43 AM
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I agree with your last sentence. And as a woman I want to up lift them and help them find strength. Snarky comments about how your husband is so much better is unhelpful and rude.


Quoting christina0607:

Yes I do think some women purposely marry assholes. Women, everyday, marry men who have already been physically and or emotionally abusive to them. Not all women are taught that they can stand up for themselves, that they are I port ant and that they deserve to be treated better.



So yes some of us want to shake these women and get them to understand what real love is.

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