So my husband and I were having sex about once a week and we have been married five years. Three weeks ago I was put on bedrest for preterm labor, I am 6 mo pregnant. In five years I have only had 3 orgasms from sex. Our routine is sex, he gets off and I use my toy. Its sad but sex is just hard for me to orgasm from. I feel bad but he has gained a lot of weight and I had too. Its bad, our pregnancy pics, everyone was telling him he was the one who looked pregnant. I wanted to punch them. I know it had to hurt him. Before I got pregnant I lost all 55lbs of it and now that I am 6 mo pregnant, I don't feel as attractive anyways. I have tried to talk to him about it and we used to try more but its just into a routine now. Plus I feel bad talking about it bc I don't want to make him feel worse, He is a great husband and father, Now that I am on bed rest, of course I want sex constantly (something you can't have), stupid hormones. I have given him handjobs, trying to keep him happy but its's hard. I want him to be back to where he used to be. Can anyone else relate or have suggestions?