Would you be able to get over it? What if it was a sibling? My sister has three kids I threw her showers for all of them. Watched them for her, took them with me camping, brought food. None of that has happened for my kids. Not even help with an announcement. Would you be able to get over it? What if family came from out of down went to dinner and no one invited you? What if your mom was mad at you for being mad at her and sibling? I honestly think she is jealous of me getting any attention. Which is bizarre she is fertile, I'm not. She is thin and pretty and healthy. I am slightly chub, diabetic and pretty. When I was adopting she got pregnant again and had the baby the same week I got my kids. She waited seven years after two and when I was signing papers got the itch. Since she had a c section my mom and dad were at er side and only saw my kids once the first two weeks. Would this hurt you? How do you feel wi favoritism that affects you and your kids? Am I unreasonable?